Therapeutic Attitude. The family systems therapist uses an active, directive manner in which family strengths are affirmed, interpersonal distance is monitored, and reality is reframed. The therapist respects hierarchies of authority and values, supporting subsystems, and speaks the language of the family, attempting to blend in with the family organization and style–to identify with the children without becoming a child, and with the parents without becoming a parent (Minuchin, 1974). It is important to include all family members in the sessions, or at least think in terms of the entire family. Dysfunctional families resist this attitude because it focuses on the family system and not just the symptomatic member. The therapist must respect the power of the family system and work to show members a better way to live together. Too critical an approach can imply that the therapist is trying to destroy the family rather than maintain it. Therapists need to have resolved their own personal family issues if they are to be helpful in effecting change.
Holly is incredibly approachable, non-judgmental and skilled in her field. She has helped me more than I had ever thought possible going into this process. With Holly’s insight, guidance and approach, I was able to participate fully in getting my relationship back on track.” ~ S.J., Seattle, WA
More Testimonials
1944 Pacific Avenue, Suite 306
Tacoma, WA 98402
(360) 915-2497
Marriage & Family Therapy – Holly Blue, LMFTA
Phone: (360) 915-2497
1944 Pacific Avenue, Suite 306
Tacoma, WA 98402
© 51Blocks.com